{"id":12409,"date":"2019-03-28T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2019-03-28T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/1millionbestdownloads.com\/sex-how-long-does-sex-last\/"},"modified":"2019-03-28T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2019-03-28T00:00:00","slug":"sex-how-long-does-sex-last","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/1millionbestdownloads.com\/sex-how-long-does-sex-last\/","title":{"rendered":"How Long Does Sex Last for Most Couples? We Asked a Sex Therapist"},"content":{"rendered":"
Let's talk about sex, specifically how long it lasts. Sometimes it's way too short, and you're thinking, Did he seriously just finish? In 30 seconds? <\/em>Other times it's way <\/em>too long, and you feel like your vagina might break at any moment. And then there are those sessions that hit the sweet spot. Not too short, not too long, but just right.<\/p>\n So how long does a typical sex session last for most people? On average, 28 minutes, according to a recent survey of 2,000 adults by SKYN Condoms<\/a>.<\/p>\n RELATED: 5 Simple Sex Positions You Actually Haven't Tried Yet<\/strong><\/p>\n Okay, that's a lot <\/em>of nonstop bumping and grinding. Holly Richmond<\/a>, PhD, a certified sex therapist, tells Health <\/em>that number seems very high (*lets out sigh of relief*). She says nine to 12 minutes is probably more accurate for how long intercourse lasts, on average.<\/p>\n That being said, Richmond also points out that surveys like this one can be tricky because everyone has their own definition of sex. Some people who replied could have included foreplay in their response, while others might have thought the question meant strictly penetration. (A rep for SKYN Condoms tells Health<\/em> the question was focused on penetration.)<\/p>\n A previous survey by sex toy company Lovehoney<\/a> came up with a time span much closer to Richmond's. The company surveyed 4,400 customers and found that for most heterosexual couples, sex lasts 19 minutes on average, and it consisted of 10 minutes of foreplay and nine minutes of actual intercourse.<\/p>\n RELATED: This Is How Often Most Couples Have Sex, According to Science<\/strong><\/p>\n But before you start worrying about whether your sex life lives up to the average, Richmond says to consider a few things. "In sex, there's not really a normal," she says. "Sexuality is so diverse, and every individual is different. I urge people to think about how unique their own sexuality is. It doesn't make sense to put ourselves in a box with a survey."<\/p>\n Also, don't let porn fool you. Richmond calls porn stars the "Olympic athletes of sex." They might look like they can go on forever, but it's just not realistic.<\/p>\n The important thing is that you're satisfied with your sex life. If you and your partner end each session feeling relaxed and connected, then it doesn't matter how long it lasted at all.<\/p>\n